I just went on a second date with this woman on Satuday night. It consisted of dinner at a really nice restaurant and a movie we both enjoyed. She was talkative and enthusiastic, and I believe she really enjoyed our evening as much as I did. We did not talk at all the next day; I made a point of not calling, so as to avoid sounding overeager. Also, I did not go for a goodnight kiss, even though it was our second date. Your thoughts?
Anyway, all that being said, I%26#039;ve been struck with the bright idea of sending her flowers tomorrow. She works late, which means she wouldn%26#039;t be home in time for a delivery, so I wanna take the gamble and send them to her workplace. It%26#039;ll be a simple arrangement, like a bouquet - I figure a dozen red roses would be too bold a statement.
Yea or nay?
Should I send flowers (and a couple other questions)?
Flowers
Birthday Flowers
Sympathy Flowers
First, If you werent comfortable kissing her yet, then you did the right thing, kiss her when you fell you are ready.
Second, flowers seem like a good idea, most women will like flowers any time =). Good luck!
Reply:what a sweetie :)
take your time and do what feels right.
send flowers no woman will reject flowers.
yea for sure
good luck
Reply:yes. we women love flowers and getting them sent to her work gives you all the more brownie points. not calling was good. we don%26#039;t like clingy, but no kiss on the second date. a peck would%26#039;vr suited. at any rate, you sound like a keeper. i am sure she is swept off of her feet. keep up the good dating habit.
Reply:Yes BUT not the red roses, they represent love, you know %26quot;I love you%26quot; love... unless if that%26#039;s how you feel
Reply:yeah! Send the flowers but make sure you have a note attached telling her you enjoyed the date and you would love a third date and call her with further detail
Reply:I would and just put on the card something like I enjoyed our date how about another soon? That way you are thanking her for the date and asking for another without sounding to eager!
Reply:Aw, you sound like a sweet guy. Lucky girl. I would be flattered if someone sent me flowers at work. I would try something a little less bold than the dozen roses though. Save that for later on in the relationiship ;) Keep it simple. Good luck :)
Reply:Never push somebody - because you are already blind.
Some people needs more time to make their mind. You want give all the candy in the world to her. But be realistic what she really knows about you. Gun shut viva love - do you want give her the flowers every week to the rest of your life.??
Reply:A bouquet sounds good....but not red roses though, it%26#039;ll look like you%26#039;re trying too hard....go for something small and subtle but that%26#039;ll leave an impact.....maybe four lovely lilies tied together with a nice satin ribbon (this is just a suggestion, by the way).....whichever flowers you choose, she%26#039;ll be grateful of the fact that you took the intiative to show that you appreciate her....good luck:)
Reply:I would wait on the flowers. But call her!! Dont forget Sweetest day is Saturday. Ask her out fot Fri or Sat...see what is best for her.
If you want to friend flowers ...do it for Sweetest Day. Dont do red roses yet...go for pink and white.
Reply:Wow what a lucky lady to hv found u, go for it, but put ur phone nomber on the card, if shes really interested she will call u, at the very least to say thanks, then go from there, if no call well u no where u stand. good Luck.
Reply:no, bring her flowers on a date,this is more appropriate,than sending them to work,you send to work,when you know her better.
Reply:good job not kissing on the second date,you should just let the feelings flow.yes you should send her flowers and it should say something like this_just wanted to let you know that i was thinking of you, and have a great day.!
I hope you have a great relationship with this girl.
p.s.- go with white daises and on the card include- well you go on a third date with me.-make it a fun date. you need to teach her something on the date- that way ya%26#039;ll can get close.
EX. go make something together.
Reply:She wouldn%26#039;t have gone on a second date with you if she wasn%26#039;t interested. She%26#039;s probably going to be confused when she receives the flowers, because you haven%26#039;t called her, which is a far more attentive thing to do with a woman you%26#039;re interested in. Call her, and hope it%26#039;s not too late, because by not following up with a phone call to say how much you enjoyed her company the previous evening, you%26#039;re sending mixed messages with a flower arrangement. I know she%26#039;s probably thinking %26#039;why didn%26#039;t he call?%26#039;. Call her immediately and ask her out on a third date. This time, follow up with a phone call the next day.
Reply:i think it%26#039;s really sweet. shows you are thinking about her.
Reply:No , you will look like a needy wuss , man really hows sending flowers going to create attraction it wont work. Period . Youl look like a dork whoes trying to impress her . Belive me yor acting too despirate she will ignore you if you keep it up .
Reply:I think that sending her flowers at work would be fine. She would like it if others knew she was considered special. But you are right about the roses, Red roses mean love and seriousness. Send her yellow roses or some other types of flowers that make a statement. Leave a simple note with them, like, I was just thinking of you today, and wanted to let you know I had a great time the other night. And I hope we can have more, give me a call. That way you are not overly eager and your letting her decide what she wants to do.
Reply:yea
Reply:I think that%26#039;s a great! I would love if my boyfriend would have done that! I think you are definitely right about not going with the full blown dozen of red roses...save that for later, further into the relationship. I also agree with what someone mentioned before me about sending a card with the flowers telling her that you had fun and ask her if she%26#039;s up for another date. By what you said she does sound pretty interested, so I don%26#039;t believe your making a mistake by sending the flowers and the card (if you%26#039;re going to do it). Good luck and I hope she loves it as much as a lot of us girls would!.
Reply:I think that would be lovely, especially if you send a simple little arrangment with a short note or something like that. I agree with you about the roses - that might be a bit much, but otherwise I think that%26#039;s very thoughtful.
About the goodnight kiss, I think as long as both of you had a good time and it felt right, not going for a kiss is totally acceptable. If by chance she misinterpreted it for not being interested I%26#039;m sure the flowers will get the right message across, anyway!
Reply:Yes!! Go for it! She would absolutely love it!
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