Wow?????????????

Ok my girlfriend and i have been fighting lately. We started a week ago. We stopped tho and things started to get better. Then she had surgery on Tuesday. I sent her a huge arrangement of her favorite flowers! She loved them. Things appeared to be back to normal yesterday. We were both finally happy again! I was supposed to go over today but she said her friend was coming over. Then i tryed to talk to her this morning but she ignored me. I found out from her BFF that he was over yesterday. And that she lied to me. Then her friend told her not to tell my gf that she told me. My gf lied again and told me that she said he was coming over on Wednesday not today. I was supposed to go over tomorrow but she said no. She is now completely ignoring me and not answering any of my calls! I left her a voicemail telling her i kno she lied and that she lied to cover it up. I also told her i will do anything in the world to fix this and that i love her and i don%26#039;t care that she lied.
Wow?????????????

FlowersBirthday FlowersSympathy FlowersThis all sounds very confusing and complicated. I think I sort of understand the problem though...The problem is you don%26#039;t know what the problem is because she seems to like hiding things from you and I have no idea why. You saying that you don%26#039;t care that she lied isn%26#039;t a good thing either, because her happiness in the relationship isn%26#039;t the only thing that should matter. You%26#039;re supposed to matter to her too and if you don%26#039;t, then she probably isn%26#039;t the one for you and you can do way better.





You sound like a really sweet guy by the way you%26#039;ve acted so far. But as much as you love her, staying with her will only hurt you more later on in the relationship. It doesn%26#039;t seem to me like she loves you as much as you love her, or at all even. So even though it%26#039;s really hard, you should break it up now and try and move on.
Reply:you should take time and think if shes lying and seeing othe people shes not worth the heartache drop her you sound cool youll find someone else
Reply:okay dude, i know it hurts but if this girl is lying to u then u probably don%26#039;t want to be with her. it%26#039;s not good to have a relationship with lies. if she lies to u again u cant just put up with it. if she did it once she%26#039;ll do it again. its human nature. i am truly sorry if i hurt your feelings or offended u but i had to. good luck.
Reply:forget it, move on. do you really want someone who is a liar and is obviously taking advantage of your good nature? find an honest person who appreciates your fine qualities. Let this liar sleep in the bed she seems busy making for herself. She obviously has no respect for you, and you can obviously do better, and you will
Reply:Ok so you started to fight before her surgery, chances are becuz she was stressed about it. She comes out of surgery and everything is fine, stress is gone. But who is %26quot;he%26quot;?
Reply:you will be a doormat if you stay in this relationship let it go. i mean no one wants someone who is willing to be lied to and b ok with it. leaving that voicemail probably made her madder but lets be real she is talking and hanging out with someone. well if you stay good luck being a doormatShoes